Closing the Gap

Well the holidays are here and gone, so where is my family? Hmm? Did anyone think all those years ago when we were in our footie pajamas that a day would come when we would not get to wake up, be blinded by the camera lights and not have moms turkey dinner (it is really all about the gravy :) ). The world has gotten smaller in a technological way so we can now text, email, skype, conference call and more. You name it we can at least touch base so that is wonderful. But no hugs, that is the tough part.

I spent this year pulling out at least one picture of a "memorable" moment so as I talked to or at someone I had that image in my sight. When we think about the measure of life it is clear that while the number of days or years seem large, the time is always too short. So enjoying good times together or at least the memories we can perhaps be mindful of are the greatest gifts we have been given over the years.

I watched the people running wild this year, stressing out about shopping, gifts, impressing others, fancy parties, appearances, etc. While those things are fine, they should not be the focus, yet many miss the point of the holiday and the family gatherings all together. And now that it is over, we put the tree away (yes away, it is stored in a box) and resume the daily activities for another 341 days. And just like this year it will be here before you know it. And most of you won't even remember what you got or who sent you a lovely card.

So instead of waiting for a special day, just call someone, send a note, text them, let them know that even though there is no turkey or big fancy tree, they are wonderful to you. Even if they drive you crazy, don't let the year pass by. Step outside your comfort zone and send a February 9th letter just because you care. Or a May 16 card just to say hi! And if you need decorations, a tree and a turkey to get in the mood then by gollie, leave your tree up and your Butterball in the oven. But whatever you do, reach out and close the gap.